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Jaime:
Another thing I notice a lot is, you mentioned
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your mother, right? These days ((laughs)) I
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posted a picture on Facebook and the first person to like it
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was my grandma ((laughs)) And I looked and my grandma is seventy-six
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years old… she has Facebook, Whatsapp, she sends
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“good morning” and then I asked her “Grandma, what do
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you do there?” I want to travel, know the places people
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post and whatnot…”. “Don’t wanna raise your
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grandkids?” “What about grandkids… they raise themselves… I want to
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travel and…” Then I think, right? A while ago…
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my grandma on Facebook.
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Silvia:
Maybe she, there in her twenties, when she got married
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: :… maybe she didn’t allow herself to stop and think if she
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really wanted to get married and have kids.
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Jaime:
Exactly, yeah.
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Silvia:
Maybe there wasn’t... ah... the power of choice and today
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there is… a little more… and… many women,
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like men, choose “no, I don’t wanna marry, I want to
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have another type, another lifestyle,” right? And… so
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sometimes what happened there, with your grandma or with
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most, was not even a choice, it was kind of a…
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Jaime:
Yeah.
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Silvia:
A social pressure.
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Jaime:
Yeah, now I see that she fits in. Even now that she is
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older, right, >seventy six<, she
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into this modernity, now with this technology
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and keeps going, you know? …and there she goes. And like… I saw that at first
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it was difficult, it’s difficult, it’s very difficult
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((incomprehensible)) you go to the countryside now, no. They
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have radio, Internet, people communicate and… there is no
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more of that recipe on paper, go
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really quick look it up on Google and… these days I saw
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her looking up a recipe on Google, I said “my
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God”…
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Beto:
Your grandma is fifty-six?
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Jaime:
My grandma? Seventy-six...
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Beto:
Ah.
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Jaime:
My grandpa is eighty-three and plays soccer. It’s a family
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that… they are Ukrainian, right? So they go
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service… like kind of often like… they have their
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attendance because Ukrainians are complicated…
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((laughs)) <but>, I get kind of amazed, you know? How
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can it be, things changed so fast? My
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grandpa doesn’t have these things yet, but my grandma is… like
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I said, right? My grandma is more delicate with
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these things, but she’s already got them and improved her skills, but my grandpa
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hasn’t… ((incomprehensible)) that’s why I say that when women
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want it they go for it and…
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Beto
Women are more up-to-date, right? But men are more
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strict.
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